Dumbstruck, marketing bit, triggers, a Kaleidoscope review and recent releases.

It's Dumbstruck Day - March 15

It's no surprise that more and more people are dumbstruck on an increasingly frequent basis. The volumes of fake news can be found in the media, making it almost impossible to tell truth from the lies. This leads to one being hopelessly dumbstruck.

Dumbstruck Day is a day to be totally dumbstruck over the things you see, hear and read. You may easily be dumbstruck to read that someone created this special day. Some people are dumbstruck on a regular basis, However everyone has the right to be dumbstruck once in a while. If you are normally embarrassed to be dumbstruck, then today is truly a special day. Today, you can be dumbstruck like the rest of us without guilt or embarrassment.

Connections and (maybe) growth

As a rookie indie published author in 2013 I thought sales would just “come” as in the mantra “If you build it, they will come”. I found out that other than a few family members and well-meaning friends, they didn’t come.

I promo’ed my heart out, created a page and group that looked similar to those I’d seen other writers make, attempted an author page and a website that were more trouble than benefit, and got addresses on Facebook, Twitter, Goodreads, LinkedIn, Instagram, and Pinterest but had only time for one of those if I was going to write at all. I joined a writer's critique group. I went to live shows.

The difficulty was that I quickly realized I didn’t have the know-how in technical and even basic telecommunications (such as getting buy buttons and a mailing list to work and creating teasers or Google forms) The even sadder part was that I was late to the party, so asking for help frightened most other authors away unless I was willing to risk hundreds or thousands of dollars.

That required more of a leap of faith than I possessed. I’ve never been a big or even medium-sized spender.

While a good website and blog with “buy” buttons is still essential, I’ve discovered that most of my Facebook followers would rather see my promos and blog information on my Group Page with links to my Amazon page, not on a separate site. My website just sits costing money and giving nothing.

Every person or site I turned to stressed the importance of networking and the problem of going it alone. So what did I do? In online networking it’s helpful to “like” and “share” posts. I share posts of the Visionary Fiction Alliance twice weekly. Having learned to create teasers, I have a new one ready every week for followers to share to their own favorite sites.

Recently I’ve begun to review A LOT I read any genre as time permits, and post a review in most cases. If I see a call out for an anthology, I sign up, pushing myself to try new genre, new formats and even new target groups.

Lastly, my Group “Writings of Mary R. Woldering” hosts an author (any genre) every Thursday. This has been successful in bringing forward new authors to my followers and creating a little action for them.

Will it make my book sales soar? It hasn’t yet, but it’s a tough market. I built it, they came, but not just to buy something from me. They came to share some tips, writing, friendship and advice. Maybe that’s really better than making it about profit. It has to be fun.

Triggers and targeting

In recent years authors have seen a rise in readers asking for trigger warnings. To me, this seems to be something that grew out of movie and video game ratings. Rather than going with "For all Ages" or "Adult" or even Pg, Pg-13 and NC-17, which hinted that there might be something forbidden to certain categories of people, the trigger warning focused on detailed warnings. A trigger is something one sees or reads that upsets the reader and/or viewer to a Post-traumatic panic attack or reaction. Here's an example. Many readers enjoy adult content with sexuality, but if the sex isn't consensual or if it's kinky, it's troublesome. Recently, racist and misogynistic material has come under fire, despite the historical or cultural context of the time. Many readers don't wish to be reminded that less than 100 years ago, women (even in the United States) had few rights and often married as early as age 14. Often their partner (particularly in closed rural communities) was closely related as first cousin. Even among the impoverished, dowries and bride prices were common. Races and classes were segregated and those who violated the societal rules were dealt with harshly. The examples could go on citing other sorts of sensitive material. Yet reading about such things can be problematic from any side depending on the needs of a reader's world view. Many readers like Regency Romance: tales of the foibles of the upper class in early 19th century England, loving the fantasy world of Bridgerton, but would be quite disturbed by Tom Hardy's Taboo set in 1814 which shows the filthy and gritty side of the era in all classes. The question is, how much if at all should an author warn a potentially sensitive reader? I posted this on my board and several authors and readers responded. The consensus if that if you label something "Adult content" a reader understands that some subjects might push them beyond a comfort zone. In addition a blurb might state "shocking", "raw" or "Unsanitized" or just plain "Not for the faint of heart".

Another thing that works is an author website or page such as the one where you are reading this article. If a reader has questions and doesn't "know" a book or author but thinks there might be troubling material, ASK. Also read reviews! Here's what my followers wrote. Adam Joseph Stump “Not for the faint of heart.” I think trigger warnings seem too much like a laundry list The Organ Pipes of the Soul Strong hearts don't need trigger warnings.

Leslie Conzatti (about reviews) This is a great idea! Then, even if the blurb might give a broader impression of the overall story, inquiring readers can see ahead of time the impact from another reader’s perspective, alongside the author’s blurb. While I understand that starting your book with “Here are all the reasons why you wouldn’t like my book!” is kind of counterintuitive... you also want to attract the right sort of reader, who enjoys the style of your writing!

Fabrice Rigaux agreed. Both with the approach and the review

Tracy Johnson Not for the faint of heart sounds better than any warning I'd put on a book. I understand that people have had traumatic things happen in their lives, so have I but that doesn't stop me from reading certain books. It's getting ridiculous in my opinion.

Troy Hudson Carter Go with the NFTFOH. Josephine Wrightson Author I went with, adult content. Explicit paranormal Romance, and intended for adult audiences only. But I like, not for the faint hearted too.

Hanne Holten I'd go with 'Not for the faint of heart'

Lois Athena Buhalis I don't care about trigger warnings. When something triggers me, I take a breath and keep on going. Life shoves all kinds of things at us without warnings, and I'd prefer to deal with them instead of trying to avoid them. When something says "not for the faint of heart" I dive right in

Eva Pasco I'm also going with "not for the faint of heart".

Mark McQuillen I dont see why there should be any trigger warnings at all. Mine would be X Rated thats why I list mine as Adult Fantasy. And all that would ruin the surprise Politically correct I'm not. You dont see anyone like George RR Martin putting trigger warnings on anything and his trigger warnings would probably cover two or three pages.

Jane Risdon What for? Never had this for centuries of reading I am sure. I do not get it but then I am old.

Charles Patton Not for the faint of heart!!

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Kaleidoscope Hearts Vol. 3: Thirteen New Stories to Fall in Love With

by Andi Lawrencovna(Author), Gina Ardito(Author), Grace Augustine(Author), CJ Baty(Author), Rochelle Bradley(Author), Linda Boulanger(Author), Laura Hern(Author), Kristine Raymond(Author), SE Winters(Author), Jennifer Daniels(Author), Kali Willows(Author), Beth Worsdell(Author), Mary R. Woldering There are thirteen ways to fall in love in this book of short stories. All end happily or promise happiness. Each is designed for a quick uplifting read as a Valentines Day gift to readers. There are reunions of childhood friends, chance meetings on the road, love among angels, healing love, a fairytale love story, loving deeds to heal the past and love to start a new future. Great stories all. 5 stars all the way!


Blood Song: Immortal Keeper Vampire Paranormal Romance Series

by C.D. Gorri (Author), Glowing Moon Designs (Illustrator) Format: Kindle Edition


Her blood sings for him, will he answer the call? Aleksei Delov is the owner of Timeless Possessions, part of a global conglomerate of corporations. The immortal Vampire Prince is renowned for his ability to acquire authentic, priceless antiques for his various private clientele. Alek’s reputation is everything, until he meets her. Carina Martin has a unique talent to find objects and to identify them by touch. She uses it for other people in order to eke out a meager living among other normals along the East Coast, but there is more to life than that, and she is dying for a piece of it. When someone robs Aleksei and passes off fakes in his name, he tracks Carina down and offers his patronage in exchange for the use of her abilities. But he is not prepared for his reaction to the beautiful normal. Can he resist the female, or will he be seduced by her blood song?

Bloody Mine

by Nikki Landis

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08Q7TZ76D/ 2-23-21 The past can always come back to haunt you. Bodie has learned that the hard way. Two months ago, he met a ghost from his past and everything was turned upside down. Sasha rocked his world. To keep her safe, he’d do anything. Bodie’s never been afraid to seek vengeance. Now there’s more reason than ever. He’s always been a wildcard. A man who makes his own luck. When Sasha’s life is in danger, he doesn’t hesitate to protect his woman. But one simple choice brings a shocking realization he doesn’t see coming. And the Royal Bastard isn’t prepared for the unexpected surprise. Love isn’t always easy. Sacrifice demands a price. This Valentine’s Day Bodie and Sasha hunt with the Reaper, and he’s one hell rider on a mission. *** For best enjoyment, it is highly recommended that The Biker's Gift is read before Bloody Mine. Tonopah, NV Chapter Reading Order: #1 The Biker's Gift (Holiday) #2 Bloody Mine (Holiday) #3 Ridin' for Hell #4 Devil's Ride #5 Papa Noel (Holiday) #6 Hell's Fury #7 The Biker's Wish (Holiday 2021) #8 Hell on Wheels

The Spires of Dasny: 2: Queen of Dragons Kindle Edition 2-26-21

by Cheryl Rush Cowperthwait (Author) Format: Kindle Edition

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Book 2 of 2: The Spires of Dasny

https://www.amazon.com/Spires-Dasny-Queen-Dragons-ebook/dp/B08SL8RHBW/ Continue the Epic adventure of The Spires of Dasny, an international best selling book, with the next in this series; The Spires of Dasny: 2<> An uneasy feeling of peace fills the kingdom of the Spires that splinters when it’s discovered Elky, the shining light of the people and dragons alike, vanishes along with her fated dragon, Ustice. Why would these mysterious people take Elky and her dragon? What do they want? The answers to those questions spurs the Spires into fast-paced action as they battle to save their kingdom and world from complete annihilation.

Unbroken (Devil Dogs Book 1) Kindle Edition

by J. Haney (Author), S.I. Hayes (Author)

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08T8H1J5C/ 3-5-21 Shattered promises make for broken people. Fight for freedom, for country, and for love. That was my MO but after the ultimate betrayal, I put my life on hold. My Name is Joshua McLaren and between being a Hospital Corpsman, EMT, and father, I have no room in my life for relationships. Women weren’t even on my radar. Work, eat, and sleep. That’s it. It was just supposed to be another answered call. Routine in its entirety. Then, I held that little girl in my arms. Saw the damage done at another’s hands. Felt the pull to my soul. I can’t let them go. I can’t leave Magnolia Gossett alone. The protector in me needs this. Needs to do something, make it right. In helping her I’m finding that love matters, and some promises may have to be broken. Trigger Warning Violence Erotic Elements Strong Language Paranormal References

The Angry Woman's Guide to not-so-snappy comebacks: Celebrating 2021 International Women’s Day (Angry Woman's Guide Series Book 1) Kindle Edition

by Raven Genevieve (Author), Coco LaBoum (Author), & 8 more Format: Kindle Edition

https://www.amazon.com/Angry-Womans-Guide-not-so-snappy-comebacks-ebook/dp/B08T7Y4SGQ/ 3-8-21

In honor of International Woman’s Day 2021 comes a collection of all the snappy things we wish we had said in the moment, but were too pissed to find our voice. Sometimes it just needs said, even if you never got to say it in the moment. There’s something for everyone in this collection of 20 authors, coming from a variety of USA Today bestselling, award-winning, and rising star authors. From heart-breaking break ups, thick glass ceilings, and tremendously disappointing conversations comes the rise of an angry woman’s voice. These authors took a chance to say all the things that you never got to say in the heat of the moment. I don’t know any woman who hasn’t been insulted. The number of them that had quick, snappy comebacks? Smaller than the number of fingers on my hand. Just like children, we’ve been told to be seen and not heard, to control ourselves, or that anger isn’t ‘pretty’. The world values a well-spoken speech and snappy responses. Fight or flight are the two options we’ve heard about, but no one talks about that third response: freeze. Pride keeps us from running away, and there’s unlimited reasons why we don’t fight. Is it any wonder that we freeze? These original stories and poems are packed with unforgettable one-liners, relatable situations, frustrating romances, and intense emotion that will leave you remembering why us women need to support and lift each other up. Fans of confident, powerful women, this book is for you. For all the times that you were stuck in a moment and your voice betrayed you, we’re giving your voice back. Don’t miss your chance, this is a limited time collection that gives you a chance to get to know some new authors and have a little reading material while waiting in the gynecologist’s waiting room. Save this to your kindle before it disappears! ****************** All proceeds are being donated to a local Girls Coding Club to encourage girls in STEM studies.

Stallion Shield: Guardians of Chaos Kindle Edition

by C.D. Gorri (Author), Book NookNuts (Editor) Format: Kindle Edition

5.0 out of 5 stars

Book 3 of 4: Guardians of Chaos https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08T6LLRCK/ 3-10-21

He knows she’s his mate, but this stubborn kitchen Witch isn’t making things easy. Furio Lo Duca is a Stallion Shifter with a serious problem. Set in his ways, the Guardian has a reputation for being tough as nails, but a certain kitchen Witch sees straight through to the heart of things. Will he continue to fight his destiny? With Loyalists threatening to disrupt the balance of magic, the Guardians must pull together. They need to be at their strongest. Can this Jersey boy claim the sassy, smart-mouthed Jessenia, taking his rightful place among his team, or will self-doubt destroy all he’s worked for?


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